Who am I?
My name is Daphne, and I am a 1.5-generation Filipina American. I was born and raised in the Philippines and moved to Los Angeles when I was 10. My husband and I are part of the EastLake Church community in San Diego County, where I’ve been involved in ministry, serving in various capacities for over twenty years. I am currently the Pastor overseeing the Prayer and Baptism teams.
I have a heart for growing in faith and love of Jesus within the context of community. Over the years, I have facilitated discipleship groups for women, young adults, and high school students.
When not geeking out on the Bible and spiritual formation, I love visiting my grandkids, tending to my succulent garden, and walking my dog, Kona. I also love reading, watching way too much K-F-C (Korean, Filipino, and Chinese drama), enjoying friends over delicious meals, and accompanying young adults on their spiritual journeys.
What’s My Story?
Like so many searching for their identity, my spiritual journey has been complicated, meandering in and out of the faith of my birth. Raised by a devout Catholic mother and a once-agnostic father, I was steeped in the traditions of the Church through my education in Catholic schools. During my university days, I felt the pull to explore other world religions. While it cultivated in me a deep appreciation for other expressions of faith, the meandering drew me away from Christianity.
It wasn’t until the age of thirty-five, propelled by a crisis of somewhat epic proportions, that I returned to Christianity. This proved to be a turning point in my life. Gratefully, I felt a nudge from the Holy Spirit to return to the roots of my faith.
Over the ensuing decades, I sampled various expressions of the Protestant faith, including Pentecostalism, Reformed, Southern Baptist, and non-denominational. Each of these experiences contributed to my spiritual growth, understanding and love of Jesus and His Church. I am still a work in progress until I meet God face-to-face. On this side of eternity, God graces us with opportunities to grow increasingly in love with Him, for the sake of the world He loves. Throughout this journey of deconstructing and reconstructing my relationship with my cultural heritage, faith, religion, and God, one thing has remained true: He is infinitely patient, gracious, abounding in love, faithful, and so much more. He has held my hand through the meandering paths, drawing me ever closer to Him.
By His grace, I have been invited to walk alongside others on their spiritual journeys. I am deeply grateful for this privilege and invite you, as you feel led, to learn more about KapwaSilentia and join me on this shared path of discovery and growth.
In His light and grace.
Show me your ways, Lord, teach me your paths.
Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.
~Pslam 25:4-5
Education and Training
Bachelor of Arts in Ethnic Studies - University of California, San Diego
Master of Divinity - Azusa Pacific Seminary
Doctor of Ministry (Christian Spiritual Formation Emphasis) - Azusa Pacific Seminary
Selah Certificate in Spiritual Direction - Leadership Transformations, Inc.